phone sex

page updated: 31-Mar-2004

The true nature of phone sex eluded and confused me as a youngun, looking at newspaper personal ads for it. I initially thought that oral sex and phone sex were the same thing, but at some point (I don't remember when), I realised that oral sex involved mouths contacting genitals, and phone sex was about talking sexy on the phone. Oral sex got status as more intimate, although I think that may be debatable when discussing non-anonymous phone sex.

I have never engaged in an activity that I would call phone sex. Although I have had desirous moments on the phone, they were not drawn out, and were not structured with the purpose of getting anybody off. (Thus, my understanding of phone sex: having sexual conversations on the phone for the purpose of becoming aroused, masturbating, having orgasms, or other such pursuits).

I would say I have flirted on the phone, expressed desire and affection on the phone, but never had phone sex. I have had sex while on the phone with someone else (mostly while on eternal hold, but also during conversations- aiee!), but never while on the phone with the person I was having sex with. For some reason that just struck me, just now as I write this, as a fitting thing to do on certain occasions in the modern age. Talk to my bed partner only over the phone, while in physical contact. Hmm.

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