make-out spots

page updated: 06-Sep-2005

floor, ground (hard, flat, uncomfortable surfaces)

Whoever ends up on the bottom when having sex on a hard surface is not going to be comfortable. I have had sex on the floor quite a number of times, all of them out of spontaneous necessity (for example, being in the bathroom at someone else's house and not having anywhere else to retire to).

The main body parts that get sore or bruised (when lying on back) are the back of the head, the spine of the lower back (pelvis level) and that vertebrae that pokes out at the base of the neck. I have also bruised my knees and elbows, depending on the position.

Quite frequently I resort to piling my clothes or at least a towel or something under my head, and laid out under my hips if I can. This leaves weird texture prints on your body but is better than bruises and linoleum-burn.

I think of floor seductions as best kept short, but they can still be fun/good.

Actual, natural ground is often not as rock-hard as a man-made floor, but can be bumpy or full of rocks and roots, which compensates for bruises that would otherwise have been missing.

bathtub

Bathtubs are a slight variation on floors, in that they are still hard and smooth, but are also a confined space. More opportunities for body bruises!

The narrowness of most tubs makes it hard to fit four legs across the bottom of them, but the hardness of the tub makes it uncomfortable for the person on the bottom to curl up and wrap their legs around their partner's waist. I cannot recall a single appropriate position for this situation, but I have managed it a couple of times so creativity must allow for something.

A quick safety note: it is not a good idea to have phallic-vagic sex in water, and not because it washes away lubrication. The pumping action of a phallus penetrating a vagina can force water into a woman's reproductive tract and promote infections. Serious stuff-- the pelvis is not a good place to get an infection, especially if you want to have babies sometime.

wilderness: yard, desert

see also floor/ground, above

I can only recall making it in two backyards, both of which belonged to me or my partner. Yards are actually decently erotic locations, as they usually smell nice, have soft grass on the ground, and are somewhat concealed from the neighbours and passersby. Other wilderness sites for seductions have included the middle of the desert, sort of the backyard of a campsite (ya more burningman sex), a sidewalk at night, a schoolyard, and a wall out in the ocean (see "public," below).

Neither of the yard events, nor the desert one, occurred directly on the ground, but rather on a blanket, bedsheet, or sleeping bag. Since living with beloved boy, outdoor sex is more a result of spontaneous inspiration than planning. In the past though, in situations with little possibility for discreet seduction, field trips outside were undertaken specifically for the purpose of getting it on. The outdoors can be a person's last option for alone time, which is kind of weird considering some of the main functions of houses.

I am more likely to be smuttily inclined outside at night, but in a very private yard or a secluded area such as the far side of a lake or something, I can be inspired in daylight. The reasons I haven't followed through on more of these inspirations have been mainly lack of available condoms, and more recently (in the age of pills) lack of enthusiasm/guts in either partner or self (more an issue of "i guess we shouldn't" than "that's weird or gross").

For whatever reason, I really like having sex outdoors. It seems very loving, maybe because of the proximity to nature (hippies nod your heads with me), and also because it loses any connection to daily life and lifestyle considerations, such as maintaining a room and bed suitable for the act. I like forgetting that sex has a social place. Outside sex seems more just like living and less like lifestyle, at least to me. It seems more like a universal, biological, non-socially-involved kind of pursuit. Unless of course the neighbours see.

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