anal sex adventures

page updated: 31-Mar-2004

My main hesitation with anal sex is mess. I fear getting my mess on my boy, and sometimes I am reluctant to get his mess on me (usually fingers). Yes the rectum is a passage and not where poo is stored, and yes it is usually empty, but also it can have stragglers and residues in it and it is not really that deep (and is followed by full on poo storage and processing facilities).

Also, what with the "shitting backwards" phenomenon and the way that air can be pumped into it even during slow sex, things can expel themselves. This was only actually an issue once, and we handled it ok. We just went and had a shower and felt better about our dirty selves. After serious finger action, which most frequently happens if I am kissing on my boy or if we are strictly touching each other, I will go wash my hands. I usually have to pee afterwards anyway so it isn't a completely conspicuous trip to the bathroom.

As far as mess avoidance, I think my notes will be fairly obvious. The mess is mainly dependent on where you are at. If you are full it will be messier than if you have emptied things. I don't make a point of "emptying" before going to bed, but I do make a point of avoiding much backdoor action if I am worried about my backdoor contents. Also, the consistency of these contents if of some importance. Firm, well-formed contents won't tend to get spread around or make a mess as much as anything of the loose variety.

Another consideration is that male ejaculate mixed with poo is about the worst smell in the whole world. This is not a smell that necessarily manifests in the bedroom, but one that I might notice alone on the toilet later. This doesn't really matter I guess, since nobody smells like roses to start with, but it's gross! I would rather have my boy come on my skin than inside me there.

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