page updated: 30-Mar-2004

more about modesty...

My vagina has been naked in public, as a part of general nakedness at naked events. I don't think my vagina has ever been displayed on its own. My roommate is more comfortable with a naked lower half than a naked upper half. I'm not sure which way I lean. My top half is probably naked more often, just by convention.

Alone with a partner, I am not bashful about my vagina or about discussing it. Usually it is seen before it does anything else, and discussions and detailed viewings of it come somewhat after general sexual activities. Right now with the beloved boy it gets touched and examined and poked at and groomed and talked to and about and whatever. Not all the time, but it's fair game. This state took a little while to work up to.

I probably show least modesty regarding my vagina when speaking, when my main form of restraint is word choice. I tend to purposely use non-crude or brash language, and mostly refer to my vagina with euphemisms like "unit." The main person I ever have occasion to discuss my own vagina with is the special boy, but vaginal topics occasionally come up in conversations with other people. For the sake of politeness I usually refer to things impersonally, but I am candid about what I know.

I barely ever bring up my sex life in conversation, unless whoever I'm talking to is comfortable talking about theirs too, as in they started the conversation. I just remember hating such discussions during my various careers as a sexually frustrated single person. Also some people just don't want to know what you're up to. It's a fun kind of discussion to have when everyone is into it though.

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