New FAQ: why am I wet/loose if I'm not a slut?

The questions I’m sent by email tend to run in flocks. This week, I’ve been getting a lot of variations on this:

my boyfriend and i did not have sex for a bout a week and when he did come over and we had sex my vagina was not tight and i did not have sex with anyone before him so what causes this problem?

So, I’ve added the answer to the vaginal FAQ.

The short version: tight vaginas are usually just dry vaginas. It is a myth that sex stretches them out. If you want more contact with whatever is in your vagina, learn to squeeze the muscles.

(Learn to squeeze the muscles anyway; it’s fun!)

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